I think they're trying to solve complexity & scale at the same time - the underlying assertion is that web dev has become really complicated (which I would agree with), and the current paradigm doesn't scale (SQL with CRUD) - so you just should build everything with Rama. I think you could definitely argue against both of those assertions, but I can see where the author is coming from because software is more complicated nowadays and hyper-scaling your traditional relational database does have its challenges - it is "easier" to scale events rather than tables, but it involves a ton more work in other places. There is also some merit to the idea that stitching together separately built components that each focus on a single scope (databases, queues, backends, etc) into a whole system limits your potential, whereas if you try to build all the components together with each other in mind, you might end up with something better; similar to the approach Hashi tried to take with Nomad/Consul/Vault as opposed to Kubernetes.
Where I think the authors totally miss the mark is that very few people actually need hyper scale - our current paradigm exists directly because of this. I don't doubt that Nathan Marz knows what he's talking about given his experience scaling real-time infrastructure at Twitter and other places, but it's just exactly that; very few people actually have the problems Twitter has. And if you're a responsible founder, you're going to do things that don't scale anyway to move faster. So if you want to change the paradigm of software development, you have to cater to the long tail of most people that don't need scale & just want to move fast. And asking these people to think in a totally new paradigm with foreign concepts that aren't really defined anywhere else (there are similar ideas in event sourcing but the terminology Rama uses is totally idiosyncratic) on a closed source, vertically integrated system that you can only interact with through a Java API seems like the absolute worst possible way to gain users