This was a weird one. We have upgraded tons of nodes in this environment before, but never seen anything like this.
Node state just said UNKNOWN and both decided to fly as primary.
Note that this happened after upgrading the second node to complete the upgrade (we had already upgraded and rebooted the first one without this problem).
Encrypted RPC is ON and not using default RPC node passwords.
I am pretty sure this is some sort of bug introduced in 13.1-37.38.
Will definitely safeguard with staysecondary after this experience, though.
Yes - Sebastian is my colleague 🙂