Knight family gives us an interesting example: a parent whose rules are created based on our prompting

She isn't passive in refining them or anything but it does seem to be the pattern

Could suggest she is at least implicitly looking to us to tell her if we think a rule is worth creating - which is a real responsibility to realize. Particularly in the calibration period.

The other side of that coin is someone in her position might be inclined to just auto-accept anything which means we need to make sure that we don't over-suggest because she'll probably just insta-implement