hole punch cards for numeric answers like "how many kids" hole punching is fun and tactile, but not strictly necessary

another idea i was thinking through was like the family tech recipes, family tech cookbook. recipe books are handed down delighters. "no one makes cobbler like grandma". there's something nostalgic and good and wholesome about a special recipe. I think that little tricks like "no phone friday nights" where we "light candles and play board games" could capture a similar sentiment