The way I do it is by the "forgot password" link/button, even if they forgot what email they used. The I show them a field to enter the email address associated to the account, which is the one they can't remember. So after they enter the email address and submit the form, a messages states that "if the email address exists in the database, they will receive an email with instructions". This way they can test as many email addresses they want, just the one associated with a current account will actually trigger the action to send them the email. I hope it helps