You're totally right about the server rules and people shouldn't be tagging Apify members unnecessarily.
That said, since this isn't the first time I've seen you mention getting notifications at inconvenient times, I'd genuinely recommend configuring Discord so it doesn't disturb you when you're off. Not because people should ignore the rules, but just for your own sanity 😅 You shouldn't have to rely on everyone else behaving perfectly to be able to disconnect on a Sunday evening.